Thursday, February 19, 2009

Slightly Annoyed

That's how I feel whenever I lose a follower.
My heart isn't broken, but trust me I KNOW when I lose one.
I don't follow you until you post on my blog at least like... 5 times. So when people say I didn't follow back, that's your own thing.
But I went from 41 to 39. I'll never really get anywhere if I keep losing the ones that I gain. It's frustrating. Plus my comments keep going down. I went from almost twenty to ten.

I found out where my friend Kush went. He got shot. Again.
This time in the arm. So now we can't play xbox with him.
He's going home soon. We were so worried about him. But now that we got ahold of him we're happy.
Apparently the name he'd given us was a fake name. The last name was, at least. But someone told us his real last name when we asked if he was okay.
He was pissed at them, but he couldn't really do anything about it.

But right now I need to lay down I guess. I've been extremely stressed out.
My grandmother is in the hospital. She had a stroke. My mom said her speech was slurring on the phone and she told her to go to the hospital. So please pray for her. My grandparents 60th anniversary is in June.


Kristina P. said...

I'm sorry to hear about your grandmother.

And don't stress about the follower thing! People stop for all different reasons. There are people I know who start using Reader instead, etc. This is why I don't do the following thing, because it seems to stress people out!

Sheri said...

Lee, I'm so sorry to hear your grandmother had a stroke. :( I hope she will be okay, and I will pray for her. ::virtual hug!:: I am also glad to hear that your friend is alive! Don't worry I'll always still follow ya and comment :P

Kimmy said...

I'm sorry about your grandmother. I hope she'll be okay.

I also know what you mean about the whole following thing. I never thought it would bother me but it did when I lost a couple also. Try not to let it bother you.

Glad to hear your friend is okay, also.

Stesha said...

Follow Wenda!

Cairo Typ0 said...

Sorry to hear about yoru grandmother. :(

How can you tell *who* stopped following you? I've never been able to figure out when people dump me.

Wendyburd1 said...

I'm so sorry about your grandmother. And I am glad Kush is okay.

I totally get the follower and comment thing, it can be quite sad, I am TRYING to not let it get to me. :)

Tim said...

Hey, you will always have me so there is some good news! And I usually always comment right? Unless IM sick or out of town or something.

Dont sweat the small stuff. If they stop following your blog then thats their loss. Truly.


Anonymous said...


I am so with you. I lost a good follower not long ago and it bothered me for days. I began to think that I did something wrong. Then I just figured whatever! So is life sometimes. It does hurt though and I really don't know why.

Glad that your friend is ok.

I am so sorry about your Grandmother. Will definitely keep her in my prayers.

Anonymous said...

Oh I hope your grandma is ok :(

Sorry 'bout losing followers/comments. I think it's just the time of year everyone is in a funk waiting for spring.

Anonymous said...

I basically follow ppl if they follow me first. Follow me I'll follow you back sort of thing.

Bobby G said...

Im not religious, but I will keep your grandma in my thoughts! Also I to hate when I dont get a lot of comments, though my followers have trippled in 09...

Kathy B! said...

Don't stress about the followers --followers are fickle.

I just popped over following Wenda, but I really enjoyed your post. Maybe I should start following you :)

Me said...

I hope all goes well with your Grandmother..sounds scary!

Don't let the followers get ya down. They are just numbers!

kel said...

Sorry to hear about your gradmother. Keep us posted, girl!

sandy said...

I'm sorry to hear about your grandmother!

I lost a follower today too:0( But guess what, you gained another in me:0)

Gwen B. (aka skinny bitch) said...

Following Wenda.

Can I just say, you have an awsome blog! I guess some people stop following because maybe they have too many other people they were following already. I never stop following someone, even if i dont read their post all the time because i would hate it if someone stopped following me too :(

That.Girl said...

Sorry to hear about your grandma. I hope she gets better soon. And congrats to your grandparents on their upcomming 60th (!) anniversary! That's awesome!

Angela said...

awwww...sorry to hear you are down. :( I hope your grandma is ok. *prayers going up*

I don't stress about the follower thing. I only have a few and get even fewer comments...but I know people are reading it so that is what matters.

Stesha said...

Lee, I hope your grandmother is okay. Don't worry about the followers, because you will get new ones.

Hugs and Mocha,

Kelsey said...

Hey look I'm you're 20th commenter!

I'm sorry about your grandma. I pray she gets better!


Stesha said...

Day 2 of the Where’s Wenda? Contest is here. Today, I am visiting all of the SITStas that commented on Hot Chocolate Caramel Mocha. That means you! Thanks so much for stopping by and for being a great SISta! -Wenda

Jess said...

I hope some good news happens soon, to cheer you up from all this bad.
But hey, you're on 40 followers now, and that's more than most people!

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